The defining mark of a christian

The Mark of True Believers

In the world of faith, actions speak louder than words. The essence of being a true believer is not about the outward symbols we carry or the labels we wear. It's not about the size of your Bible, the stickers on your car, or the music you listen to. It's about how we live our lives and, more importantly, how we love others. The Bible teaches us that sacrificial love is the defining characteristic of a child of God.

In 1 John 3:10-15, it is evident who belongs to God and who does not. Those who do not practice righteousness or love their brothers and sisters are not of God. Love is the primary proof of our identity as believers. Jesus emphasized this in John 13:34-35, stating that people will recognize us as His disciples by our love for one another. Love should be our highest priority, our main objective, and our greatest ambition. Without love, all our achievements and possessions are meaningless.

Jesus: Our Model for Sacrificial Love

Jesus exemplifies the ultimate act of love. 1 John 3:16 tells us that we know love because He laid down His life for us, and we should do the same for our brothers and sisters. This is the essence of sacrificial love—putting others' needs above our own, just as Jesus did. It's not just about grand gestures but also about small, everyday acts of love.

Mother Teresa famously said, "There are not great actions; only small actions done with great love." This means that every act of kindness, no matter how small, is significant. Whether it's making dinner for your family, listening to a friend, or helping a neighbor, these are all acts of love that reflect Jesus' example. The best way to show love is by giving our time, a resource we can never get back, making it a true sacrifice.

Living Out Sacrificial Love

Living a life of sacrificial love requires a change of heart. 1 John 3:17-18 challenges us to see the needs around us and respond with action, not just words. If we have the means to help but close our hearts to those in need, how can God's love be in us? This kind of love is not something we can achieve on our own; it is empowered by the gospel and the example of Jesus.

Jesus didn't just teach about love; He demonstrated it through His actions. His life was a testament to loving others selflessly. To live out this love, we need to receive more of God's love so that we can pour it out to others. It's about allowing God's love to transform us, enabling us to love in ways that go beyond our natural capabilities.

The Importance of Love

At the end of the day, the most important thing we can do is to be a person of love. Our work, hobbies, achievements, and possessions will all fade away, but love endures (See 1 Corinthians 13). Life is not about how much we earn, acquire, or accomplish; it's about how we love. When we focus on loving God and loving others, we fulfill our true purpose.

So, how can you become more loving today? Is there someone in your circle of influence (family, friends, neighbor, co-worker) who needs more of your time and attention?

— Daniel mackey

Youth Pastor - [Multiply]Family of Churches